Just to butt in here...I think you are in one of the best positions on this board even though you are not M anymore. Like Ali said though, you need to act like you are not M, just to let your XH see what this is like for awhile. You KNOW he loves you. You see him all of the time. He needs to realize that he's made a mistake but when you get irritable with him it is only going to reinforce in how own mind the thought that he did the right thing. Because you see him all of the time, I really don't think it would take that long for a big change in you to bring him to his senses! How long have you been able to DB for with no backslides? I've started ticking boxes on a calendar as it helps me keep a goal. My goal is now 30 days, at 23 to date...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
