This is going to sound off the wall but is it possible that your H is so insecure that he thinks that the kids, under your supervision and under your roof actually do well? He wants you to be seen as failing as a parent and hates the thought that your kids are capable of doing their work, getting up to go to school, etc.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
