H is now trying to manipulate S16 into not staying over with me. Over the course of the next few months I will be able to give S16 a lift to college as I have meetings at the uni across the road. S16 and I have discussed this and have decided that it will be easier for him to stay the night before so that we don't both have to get up early in order for me to pick him up. He is supposed to be coming over tonight. However when I TMd to suggest he came home with D13 (she has gone to Hs for tea tonight - first time in months) he replied that H was not happy with our arrangement as he is concerned S16 won't do his homework or get enough sleep! WTF!
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15