Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues
I am learning that it takes far, far more strength to actually be meek.


Ohhh yeah. Same here.

Tal, I often feel as you do. Feel as though I must stick up for myself. My feelings, my opinions. If I don't, then I often feel as though I'm "ok"-ing (what I perceive to be) the battering. But what I'm actually doing is fueling it even more. Even when it's not my intention.

Choose your battles wisely. Which ones matter? Which ones don't? When you do need to stand and speak up, be firm yet kind.

It's a tough challenge, but one you can accomplish.

You're an Aries, you said? Yeah, one of my sisters is an Aries, too, and I've seen her in action many times. ;\) It doesn't take much to set her off sometimes. Me - I'm a Pisces. Always very mellow until I feel pushed and pushed and pushed towards the edge. Then look out!

Anyhow, I hope you are well. \:\)

(((((((Tal)))))))

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell