Expecting Too Much Too Soon

[AliSuddenly]

Ahh...but also...

I just wanted him to see D after her first day at school.

I, I, I..(spoken like a true Aries!)..therein lies the problem? I dont know if it would help, but if you looked at some of the behaviours you do to him/or things you say to him.. imagine that was someone doing it to you, again and again and again.. how would it make you feel? (maybe you would like it, I dont know, maybe it would make you feel loved, cherished, needed, maybe the opposite??)

I think you need to do something like NLP..you need to reprogram your brain to stop seeing him as 'yours', he isnt, he is holding himself at a safe distance from you, watching your actions. Maybe you could do that technique of wearing a bracelet or something, that you can twiddle when you speak to him to remind you to NOT react in these old patterns?

Dont mind me poking you, I'm frankly just a bit green that you're still in the race! Big hugs to you,
Al x