Expecting Too Much Too Soon

[AliSuddenly]

Jen! Jen, Jen, Jen, Jen.... WHEN ARE YOU GONNA LEARN !!??? God I wish I were in your shoes, having the chances you have... Your H TELLS you what he is up to, which is positive.. and then you respond with

he said he had to go to a company to pick up a manual at 11:00 am so he didn't know. I asked him if that would take 2 hours and then he said he'd have to eat lunch.

... do you think that was the right reaction??? How do you think that would have made him feel? Questioned? Hemmed in? Disapproved of? Controlled? Manipulated? What was your intention in asking him that?

Maybe you should stop pointing the finger at the manipulative ow..?

Your not M anymore! He can do what he likes! If you really want this guy back, you have to look within and stop trying to control him. Please, pretty please! Do it for all of us here that are barely (or not even) in touch with our WAS?

this isnt a 2x4, its an outsiders observation !?
Al xxx