I wonder if you cant mine your sitch a bit deeper though !?? I mean, lets face it, he cant really have left because you cooked peas, thats just what he said. I'm guessing you already have a fair idea of what issues there may have been prior to the bomb, the DB coach went through that with me. I just wondered if there is scope for 180s in that process, but perhaps you have already identified them?
Shame your H is away on holiday, but like someone said, it isnt that positive if the aub hasnt gone with him.
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
