Yes, seeing my friend come to the conclusion that all the "alternatives" she was meeting as a single woman were no better, and sometimes worse, then what she had was interesting. And this is a woman who was 100% CERTAIN for 5 years that leaving her husband and divorcing him was the right choice. I know she didn't want to be married to him, but on the other hand, I don't think she realized she could remain single the rest of her life. And at this point it looks like there may be a chance of that.
Too bad he's with the horrible girlfriend. I call her that because the two of them have become very abusive to the children. The whole thing is really upsetting and I think if she had any idea this would occur she would have at least waited until the kids were grown.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
