John,
I like how you are thinking.

I think that I would agree with you that they rationalize that the kids will be OK. I wonder how people from divorced homes reconcile. That's part of the reason that I've tried so hard, I remember being part of two divorces.

I wish you all the best as you work your way through this process.

Dan

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