I was looking at your post and I think he's trying to trick you. He knows you don't make much money for a L and so he's telling you BS really. I would imagine ALL states have more than those 2 options. Don't let him play you for a fool.
In regards to the housework...laundry, cooking etc? I think you should stop doing it for him. Cook for you and your son and keep his dirty laundry in the hamper. It's my opinion that why should you have to do that for him while at the same times he's being mean to you.
I'm not sure about your S. I guess you'll have to rely upon him telling you where they're going and what time they'll be back for the time being.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
