Well, M from Tennessee invited me over from Newcomers, the decision to D has been made. W signed lease on apartment yesterday. says she can move in Nov 1.
at this point i say good ridance. the past few months have shown me that i really dont like her much. the aliens have taken over, the OM is feeding her with lies and anger.
the lawyers are waiting in the wings to start the process. W's lawyer convinced her i have been hiding my money, W convinced lawyer i'm manipulative, have traumatized her, have abused her throughout our entire relationship. Lawyer told her she'll get W all she deserves.
so the assets will be distributed.
but my D2.75 is my most important asset. I will not give up custody, let them bankrupt us both, i'll fight this one to the end. Hopefully my W will show a bit of morals/ethics and not try to take her from me. 50/50 joint custody and residential time is ok with me. anything less and i think it'll get ugly.
if anyone can give me some pointers for the lawyers and custody, i'd greatly appreciate it.