Puppy.. my spinning plate crashed

[Heartbroken]

San

WHY are YOU doing his packing? Make him pack up - seems you are pushing him out. Make him make the decision to leave you and his kids. Also - if he is at the house for his time with the kids - you go and do something for YOU - even if it's going to the bookstore to browse. Just get out - he is not taking his share of the responsibilities with his kids or so it seems!

Trust me out of sight is NOT out of mind. When he is not with you do fun stuff with the kids so THEY can report to him all that they have been doing WITHOUT him!!!!!!!

Please read my sitch to see all the things I did wrong and learn from my mistakes. My H waffled for well over 16 mos and I could have ended it so easily - but I did not want to! I made it hard for us to split. We never divided our $ accts and we split the time with the kids - it was only fair.

Spend some time reading how others have gone through the same things you are - learn from them. Patience Patience Patience - my H said if I had not been so so patient we would be divorced today!

Take one day at a time!

HB