So I never did go to the Craft fair on Sunday..I did a little too much GAL on Saturday night and was LAZY yesterday.
I haven't heard from H again since Friday night yet but I actually have a very good positive feeling about our situation. I just realized that for someone that is having a ball living on his own last week consisted of....Wed - he was at my house. Thur - He was at his mom's house. Fri - He was thinking about me (Couldn't have been doing anything too interesting..lol). I know that still leaves Sat & Sun but overall I actually feel calm and extremely positive now.
Saturday I hung out during the day with my BFF then I went to a Feast with another friend that evening. When I got home BFF called me and said she's on the way over and we are going to have a drink, so I figured whatever I haven't been out in a LONG time. Well we were out till closing time and a few too many Tequila shots left me not getting out of bed until noon and in need of aspiren..lol. So the Craft Show idea was nixed.
Oh well this is the season for Craft shows and there are going to be plenty more and I think there is even another one near his place in a few weeks again.
I do think it's true that our WAHs usually spend most of their time alone or doing very mundane things when they aren't with us. Mine told me today that his weekend consisted of "far too much studying". What a party! Good thing I wasn't there to screw it up :).
I think you have just the right kind of mindset now to start seeing things happen. It seems (from what I've seen on these boards) that when you start to feel a little more separated from what they are doing, they can somehow "sense" this.
I know I have been saying this a lot lately, well mainly to you and Jen, but I really feel like good things are coming your way Sep.
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
ITH - Ohhh you are soo right! H always seem to know exactly when I am detaching..it's like he can sense it. This has happened in the past when we were just dating. I would get to a point where I would say that's it I give up...and magically he would be there wanting to make everything better again. Not that I am expecting that this time at all. This times it's going to take alot of work and time to get back on track, actually create a brand new track!!
Thanks so much for the positive vibes.
Julia - Yes I feel really good today. I actually feel like an epiphany hit and I finally understand what was meant by having a PMA..lol.
Oh no I mean having beer in my fridge lol!! I try to keep at least a pack in there for whenever H comes over. It's so much cheaper than buying a beer in a bar!! Plus now with job #2 I get home late enough.
It's so much cheaper than buying a beer in a bar!! Plus now with job #2 I get home late enough.
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