I do think it's true that our WAHs usually spend most of their time alone or doing very mundane things when they aren't with us. Mine told me today that his weekend consisted of "far too much studying". What a party! Good thing I wasn't there to screw it up :).
I think you have just the right kind of mindset now to start seeing things happen. It seems (from what I've seen on these boards) that when you start to feel a little more separated from what they are doing, they can somehow "sense" this.
I know I have been saying this a lot lately, well mainly to you and Jen, but I really feel like good things are coming your way Sep.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!