Looking for some more patience!

[kissak]

Thanks Cagz....I did give him the papers. He called me that night to tell me he didnt agree with them....I mentioned alimony and he freaked out. He was upset that i wanted half his retirement yet he werent taking any of my business. I told him that if he could pick what parts he wanted, so could I. He wants 25% of the house...well, then I want 50% of the retirement. He offered to roll it over into an IRA for me. I dont think he will fight me, he just didnt like that I had disagreed on that and the part about him paying half of the uninsured medical bills. BUt I think he is going to agree to them. I told him I werent changing my mind.

Then he goes to tell me that he has to pay the lawyer for drawing them up the first time before he can give them to him for corrections. Ok, heres what I dont get, why did he want them back so bad, when he cant even pay his lawyer to redo them? My H is moving out of a house and into a camper! He is borrowing money from everyone he knows just to get by and he isnt even getting by! He has borrowed money even from me to feed our kids when he has them!! He is broke! I cant seem to say no when he is asking me for money to feed the kids. I know with out a doubt if I needed money at anytime for anything and he had it, he would loan it to me, so I hate not to help him...But I am getting tired of helping him! So, I have to learn to say no, when in the future he may be the only one I can borrow money from???

Ugh, He even came over last night to borrow some hamburger so he could cook for my kids! What am I supposed to say to him?