At first, I'd always make sure I was looking GREAT whenever I saw her, but now, I don't care. I guess that is a good thing, right? I'm no longer trying to impress her in any way. I know what I am and if she can't figure that out, then I've got better things to do w/ my time then trying to make a blind woman see.
Now you're living your own life. The changes you've made are for you and your D instead of out of hope for your W. That is a good, good thing.