That is why I worry about me not talking to him... it will be easy to permanantly walk away from me and the kids with less and less contact. Does that make sense?
Sandy, I was about to give you my opinion on this, when I read something on another thread that sums it up far better. It's from WDID -- a former WAW, and it really helps give a peek into the state of your husband's mind right now:
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That being said, it's not over til it's over. I've heard many stories on here about things happening at the very last minute. Giving her the candy, inviting her to church...all good guiltwise, but she just may see it as "he's still nice to me, I'm ok" Having you "all business" and then go to "being nice" will take away from the "all business/making her feel her choice". You know your situation more than anyone, and you know your wife, but I know that when my H was ok, I was ok. When he didn't give a darn about me, didn't treat me like his wife anymore, took away all the things I depended on him for, it was a very different story....I didnt' like it. It made me think. Especially about my son. When he stopped telling me where he was with him, when he stopped inviting me to do the fun stuff with him, when I was alone with son and never a family, THATS where it hit me how it would be. I realized that my H would NOT give me my cake and let me eat it too. He would not let me have this nice divorce where the family is still all wonderful and loving and acting like a family when in reality they are living a single married messed up life.
