Letting go, accepting change are good skills to learn, something this divorce is forcing (hopefully). He traveled a lot too, at times extensively or worked phenomenal hours which he rarely felt was too much.
I'm looking at the prospect of half the house, one third as nice as what we have now for roughly the same house payment.
It really doesn't matter what I say or write to him on a personal level.. so I'm not gonna do anything. No need to let him know what could bug me.
