I am considering cutting off her cell phone and providing her with one of those phones that will only call certain numbers. She can't afford her own cell phone and I want her to have something so that when the kids are with her she can contact me.
I read somewhere here in the forums that I cannot control what she does; but I can control what I will finance. And I will pay for my WAW to have conversations with another man. I just want to do it in a way where it doesn't tip off that I have seen the texts between her and her new OM. Mainly because I suspect that it might be the lawyer she went to see. I would like to bust that out in a meeting about the divorce.