I've forgiven her Kathleen, I harbor no ill will towards her. I will not comfort her, I will not play into her guilt. She has brought this upon herself. I will not attempt to fix, understand or be a part of her Batchittt crazy. I will stand by and wave at her as she rides the rollercoaster that she made for her, for our daughter, my son and me..
I have my boundaries which she will no longer cross.
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You've said your wife harbored a lot of resentment over your initial balking about reversing the vasectomy
and that is not for me to fix.
I'm still good Kathleen..
I'm still done too..I will not go back. No amount of money, no disaster, no nothing could make me go back. She will not have another chance. She thought she was losing a bad husband, she really lost a good husband who just got comfortable..
she really lost the best thing going..
so reality bites...smacks you around a bit. she can wallow..I don't have much compassion for her Kathleen, if any...she can be a part time mom...it's what she wanted. Now she'll have to live with it.
