Sara you are right! And I will talk to my H and tell him that I think we need to start dialoguing again, because when we “talk” its not really about us, it’s about everyday things. And I feel that this is the one big key that’s missing from all of this! What you both say makes so much sense, if I sit back and do nothing waiting for him to do it again, then I have allowed the marriage to fail this time, because of my fear. Its time for me to step up! I know if I tell H this he will be ok with it, but sometimes I still fear if I say or do the wrong thing then it will drive him away again! Thank you all for checking in!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
