Hi, NLT,
Hope you are doing better today. I'm glad to hear that your parents have been so supportive. It seems to me that when we get some sort of crisis in our M, it can change our relationships with other people too. My mother and I always had a sort of tenuous relationship, even since I was in my teens--I think because we are so much alike that we rub each other the wrong way--but since the bomb, she has been just incredibly supportive and non-judgmental, and we haven't butted heads at all. It is a big improvement in our relationship.

Anyway, enough about me...no advice, just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and following along in your sitch and sending you cyber-hugs! \:\)

Peace,
Dawn


Me 45/H 47, no kids
Together since 1985; M/1992
Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001
Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues
H left 11/24/08
minimal contact, no legal action
http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1