Hi Lisa Sounds like you are having so much fun. You are the GAL pin up girl! Also very glad to hear that H isnt going away with aubergine. Thats not a good sign! Also interesting that H got a bit teary. Poor boy so confused!
But CEO sounds so much fun and I love that he's texting you as soon as he got off the plane to say that he arrived OK. Seems like you are on the same wavelength.
I've just been reading up on MLCs and was wondering whether you'd seen the one on the "Dummies Guide to MLCs". I think it's HILARIOUS, and there is a section about how to blame your spouse for things, and of the suggestions is "You use bagged salad." This made me think of you. Anyway if you haven't seen it, it might make you smile:) Midlife for Dummies
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
If you need a good pick me up, get the soundtrack to Mamma Mia and sing it loudly at the tops of your lungs at your office. That should turn a few heads and put you in a great mood. My officemates are going nuts over it!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I'm glad at least one of you can see how it'd be a really embarrassing thing to have happened! It was awful!!
Thank you for being so nice about my life. I'm not sure it's as exciting as it seems in written form (there are lots of bouts of nothing), but it's good to think there are odd amusing things going on.
ITH- thanks for the link. I used to read it a lot at the beginning, and the bagged salad thing did make me feel better as it was prtty upsetting when I got all the odd excuses H gave me. It's still funny in a sort of black humour way isn't it?
mishka- thanks for the tip. I LOVE ABBA!!
So, I haven't got much to report today. H is away so I'm not going to hear from him. CEO and I spoke a bit today but there were no obvious flirting signs. All quiet on the Western front as they say.
I wonder if you cant mine your sitch a bit deeper though !?? I mean, lets face it, he cant really have left because you cooked peas, thats just what he said. I'm guessing you already have a fair idea of what issues there may have been prior to the bomb, the DB coach went through that with me. I just wondered if there is scope for 180s in that process, but perhaps you have already identified them?
Shame your H is away on holiday, but like someone said, it isnt that positive if the aub hasnt gone with him.
Ali x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Lisa!!! Are you still awake over there?! I have a pretty big update that I'm going to start writing. Please look out for it. I know I've been missing, but Ive been busy!
H & I, both 32, together since 18. *M 7/03, A since 9/06. Bomb 7/07, H ended it w/ OW 9/08 * Agreed to D 6/09...very hard *D 8/10 * At peace, have become great friends w/ X-H and his new GF
