Yeah I think you're right. Just a little note to let him know I am thinking of him. I don't think it would be taken as pressure since it is after having so much space. I will wait another day or so and see what happens but by Wednesday I will send him a little hello. And when/if he responds I will just text here and there but not sit down to a half an hour text fest right away. Gotta move slow as to not spook the herd!
And between now and then I am going to throw myself 100% into finding a new job/second job so that I can move out of my parents house because I'm going insane! I need my space!
I also think that getting a new job and moving forward with my own life will make me feel better about my marriage situation because I will not be putting the pressure on him to "save me" from my situation. I feel it will help me have more patience.
It would also be nice to feel a little more grounded right now. I think part of the reason I get so high strung about my marriage issues is because everything in my life feels a little out of control right now and I just feel like if I could get one or two of these other major issues nailed down I would feel a lot lot better.
So tomorrow the goal is to get 10 applications to fill out and return by Tuesday. I also need to have a conversation with my boss at my current job to get my hours under control there and more stabalized so that I will know how much extra income I need to make in order to move out.
I'm also gonna work out tomorrow come hell or high water! Lol.
