She seemed almost embarassed and was very repentant...she has not been "nice" to me in the last 1.5 years etc...i deserve someonne better than her.....yada yada yada.
I have heard this same thing from my W. I am taking her up on it and plan to find someone better than her in the future.
It probably is good that you had this talk for a more concrete closure. You probably will never understand, just as I, how someone can throw away something that seemed so good. I believe there may be some behavioral similarities with Lemming's in migration and WAW's.
