Joking aside I think you are doing a good job. You realize where you need to make changes (as far as asking to do things together) it seems that he makes time for you three to spend time together as a family (like how he said he was going to eat at home and then stayed there to eat with you guys) so if you stop asking altogether it seems he will pick up the rope and make ways for you to spend time together, even if not in "public" for awhile. But that's okay.
Hi Daisy! Once in a while I get inspired and I post a novela
I think today I pushed it a bit and have come to realize that me asking is not working. I guess right now I take what he can give me and not look for more. I fall into the trap of "looking for too much too soon".
He invited himself to go to the first day of school tomorrow so I think that was good too. Most years I've taken her by myself.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
A lot of positives for sure. I don't think there is anything wrong with testing the waters now and again but that is two days in a row so you need to back off now. I know it is hard to get a bite and then want more progress overnight. But unfotunatly it is not realistic. But there are a lot of good things happening right now so try and use that as motivation to remain patient and positive!
We seem to go around and around and I hope this time I can reach out and pull us off the merry go round He said today over the phone "this is more of the same" and I instantly thought of DB. More of the same is getting me/us no where.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Oh well at least he apologized for today... no more persuing.