Daisy, The Dobson Letter wouldn't do any good right now.
I agree with your friend. And when you do talk to him act as if everything is fine. Don't let on that you were/are mad at him. The last thing he'll want to hear is anything negative. You want to draw him out and make him comfortable again. This is a time to show you're strong.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*