Oh yes. I just read about that in the book. I don't see it doing much good in my sitch. At least not right now. It also seems like the goal is to get the wayward spouse to go to counseling and I have been there, done that.
I just got off the phone with my friend. Who called primarily because I said I was about 2 minutes away from calling my husband. She said I should hold out at least another week.
I just feel like this whole thing is a game of cat and mouse and just a power struggle which is not healthy for marriages. But what else can I do? Call it off? Then I "give in" and "lose"
