MarriedCrazy, First, Welcome to the DB family; everyone here is so welcoming and friendly. I am truly sorry you have found yourself here, but I hope you find the feedback you are searching for to make the decisions that will be best for you and your family.
Dbing is making changes within yourself (180's); from there, the ultimate goal is having your S see these changes and like them! I hope you will be optimistic, until there are two signatures on D papers, nothing is final.
Stop and think then react. Take it one day at a time.
Most importantly take care of yourself and your children.
cdbmod
"When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion"
"Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing to do. But to hold it together when everyone would understand if you fell apart,that's true strength"
