I am just in the beginning stages of DB'ing, mostly to better myself for the future. I have been of the mindset that I want the divorce that she is asking for; because I am tired of dealing with the W. I know that in some areas I contributed; but she had impossible demands in the money area as she couldn't stop spending. Therefore I couldn't completely satisfy her, though I tried. Anyway different story; I digress.
After having her here interacting with children this weekend; I feel that I might be waffling.
I would like to hear from anyone who was a LBS with a WAS that had multiple affairs and successful DB'ed back to a happy marriage. Just don't want to close the door completely without trying everything possible and I want to know if anybody has had a similar sitch that was overcome. The family is very important to me and I would love it to survive. I'm not optimistic at this point.
