I don't think you really need to comment about the phone either, I don't think it's necessary. You don't have to verbally comment on everything he does IMHO.

Originally Posted By: nik
It bummed me out a little BUT I was proud of myself for letting it go. And he made up for it big time. \:\) (GOOD JOB NOT LETTING THAT GET YOU DOWN!)

We headed off for Sonoma and I kept screwing up the directions. I thought I remembered better where things were but kept getting turns wrong. I thought he'd be frustrated but he wasn't at all, so that was cool, and I managed not to get too frustrated either. Heck when you're in wine country with the top down and beautiful scenery.. what's a wrong turn here and there??


okay, have you thought that maybe the reason he would get frustrated before was because you would get frustrated??? Even if it was him getting frustrated first, if we don't let them bring us down, and we keep our PMA up, then we can bring THEM up instead! So your mood may have just kept your H from getting frustrated!

You are SO awesome Nik! I'm so glad you had a great time, you deserved it for sure!!!!!


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."