I know y'all are probably right but it really hurts to feel this distance from my D.

One thing I did find out is that he's been telling her that I agreed to save 30K of the money he owed me for her college and I renegged on that promise. I never made that statement and the judge told him that even if I had agreed to it that he had no right to tell me how to spend "my" money.

I asked her if she'd ever known of me to lie and she said, "No." Then I asked if she'd ever known of her dad to lie and she said, "Yes." To me that should settle it but I guess not............ \:\( I'm going to leave her alone for however long it takes for her to work through this. But, I miss my girl and I'm so sad.