My wife did the same thing. She decided she "always" wanted to be a firefighter. I never remembered her saying it. I wonder if it's not part of the hormonal changes that makes them come up with this idea of becoming this stronger more masculine person. It seems like my wife has need to control everything. I don't ever remember being overly controlling myself but I think it's part of the mania they are going through....
H 42 W 37 M17 T20 years 3 daughters 11,11,14 seperated 11/26/07 EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8 Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon