thanks for all the help guys

i am going to start writing stuff down and lodo...you are correct...it's hard to be objective when you are close to the subject matter

and

i was listening to some music today
and

the kids and i were singing this song at the top of our lungs and i realized that it is kind of an anthemn for all of us
There are places I remember all my life,
Though some have changed
Some forever, not for better
Some have gone and some remain.
All these places have their moments
Of lovers and friends I still can recall
Some are dead and some are living
In my life I loved them all.

And with all these friends and lovers
There is no one compares with you
And these mem'ries lose their meaning
When I think of love as something new
And I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them.
In my life I loved you more.

And I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them.
In my life I loved you more
In my life I loved you more


and because it is one of my favorite love songs
There are places I remember all my life,
Though some have changed
Some forever, not for better
Some have gone and some remain.
All these places have their moments
Of lovers and friends I still can recall
Some are dead and some are living
In my life I loved them all.

And with all these friends and lovers
There is no one compares with you
And these mem'ries lose their meaning
When I think of love as something new
And I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them.
In my life I loved you more.

And I know I'll never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know I'll often stop and think about them.
In my life I loved you more
In my life I loved you more

and because i like this one too

Let's go down, together
3 AM tomorrow night
I'll take you over anything
Let's go out, together
Broad daylight in the street
I'll take you anywhere

Chorus:
Your music fills my car
Your voice breaks every time
I'm still wondering
If I know who you are
I hang on every line

Let's go down, together
Down by the old mainstream
I'll take you over anything
Let's go back in time 1959
I'll take you, Radio King


ok that is enough music for today

i'm off to listen to my high fidelity soundtrack

i love that stevie wonder song