For his young age, you son really "GETS IT". I admire him for saying the truth to his dad. I also feel so sad for him.
Do everything in the next month that you can for your kids. You can go to Halloween parties or pumpkin patches and just soak up the holiday on a day other that "THE DAY". I think that will help a lot, don't you. Or host a Halloween party for your kids a week ahead. I used to do that. We even created a Haunted House in our basement. It was incredible! In fact - we did that more than once.
You are a fab mom. Your kiddies know it. Keep on enjoying those babes!
