Hey T2L, hope your weekend went well. Shout out to you??? Jgrind, looks like twinhope and marisol are gone for the weekend but where is t2l? I know how easy it is to get down on ourselves. The rest of the weekend was quiet. H stayed home on Saturday night and today he took D to religious school and then came home. I was a little overwhelmed again, saying how he is leaving us. He wanted to tell D's today but I suggested he wait till towards end of next week so D won't be messed up at school for 5 days. This will be week from hell. Then H came to church with D and me. I can't figure him out. I did tell him that I pray for him and pray for our family every day so maybe he is trying to catch up. too too much. When H told me he wanted to leave, I told him I am staying in the house as not to disrupt our D any more than she had to. I told him he to pay 1/2 the bills and he can get 1/2 the profit when we sell when she gets out of school (almost 3 years). He agreed but grumbled a little bit when he saw how much it would cost him. But we bought the lot next door also last year so that was an additional 200 month for him also. too bad. Your right JGrind...get tough, my problem is that I am controlling and prone to anger so I am working on that, I think your H would like you to take a stand. I think you were too nice to him before. Remember do something different than you normally do. I need to lose another 40 pounds, even though all of my marriage I have been overweight. I am only 5.2 so every pound shows. Wish I could be 5.7! Well I am going for a walk. I think H is staying home to watch Dallas game tonight. I am also thinking of going to an Alnon meeting, with all this drinking going on. Who is my H? I thought I knew -- he is like a stranger. Like the quite about 15 years of marriage. How true. We are just so impatient. take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
