Life Outside the Hurricane's Eye

[Ready2Change]

Hey Ready...

Hi!

All good points

Thanks

The tension is tough now

Is it more or less than before the bomb???

All I remember was the relief I felt when he finally spoke about how miserable he felt.. that we could finally deal with things.

I had that same feeling of relief that W was talking openly.....

I admire all the folks who project that life is wonderful around their spouses

It is really hard, but gets easier the more you do it and the more time that passes...

I have to change my "this sucks, I can't believe this is happening, you hurt me" mindset.

YES. It is very critical to do this ASAP!!! You are a strong woman and you need to Focus on all the good in life. If I start letting HER get me down, I recall the good things that are happening in my life right now. Focus on the good and be able to pull that emotion out anytime. If I need to smile, I pull up recent event that have made me feel good and I smiled.

Today my daughter and I went to open houses.

It sounds like you had a great bounding experience!

We were animals..

...a condo which was really the best of the lot though I'm not sure I could afford it

Not sure how the laws work in your state, but I Think the more expenses you show on the financial the better...(at least right now). You being in the marital home right now should be good for that...

...It was neat to have her with me and know she was learning how to assess things in a potential home beyond it looking cute and if the biggest kid room was pink...

It sound like it was a good feeling having her work with you on this

...Afterwards, we had a late lunch..

Tell me every GOOD detail about the lunch (Bullet list would be great!!)

.. we did some research on Zillow...

Zillow is great!

..I was relieved to hear it wasn't just me...[/qoute]May help you sleep tonight.....
[quote=Gypsy]..I really didn't think about him at all...

WAHOO!!! GAL girl!

I am proud of you Gypsy! It sound like you had a great day...

*HUGS*