And the moral of the story is..... it's always good to speak with the person who is sick.
He sent me a text asking what I was doing. I said nothing in particular He asked if he could come over I said maybe He ok I said ok what? and then my phone rang. And he sounded like crap.
He asked why the "maybe" and and I said because he has been incommunicado all week long and he said "I've been SICK" and then started hacking. And it wasn't a fake hack. Whoops.
I still feel like things aren't going so well, but at least he really WAS sick. And now I feel bad for not believing him.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing