No, you are not "waiting to see if he decides to come back." You are "moving on with your life, as if he is no longer in it." You are moving on down the path, and NOT looking constantly over your shoulder to see if he's following you. You walk down it righteously, carrying a lantern to shine a light back toward your marriage, but you otherwise make no effort to attract him. One day you may feel a tap on your shoulder, but maybe not. And on that day, you may decide to take him back.
Or maybe not.
PDT, that is one of the things that jumped out at me while reading different threads. I took the long way to figure this out, but it is so true.
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Knowing my W that little interaction and the spring in my step will start to drive her crazy wondering what is going on.
Maybe, maybe not. I just have to fight for D11 and myself and continue to do the right thing. Everything else will go the way it was meant to go.
Last edited by yenko69; 09/21/0810:52 PM.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
