No offense taken. I in fact need the wake up call.
When I think about it , I just see how sorry I am and cant understand how he cant. BUT perhaps if I just acccept that I did wrong and the consequences of that , then I will move on.
As frustrating as it is, the loss is mine to bear.
Your response is actually quite healing in a round about way.
I think, us that do wrong, do everything we think of to try and put right that we possibly don't really stop and think.
We are actions, words, actions etc Back pedaling so fast we loose sight of the others pain. We can intellectially understand it, but emotionally we don't go there. Almost impossible to empathise when you have not walked in those shoes!
Thanks for your words. I shall go and ponder and take it in as much as I can.
End of the day I want to be able to be happy. Maybe I just have to sit back and see if that includes H
