Yay for breakfast!!! After the appointment, we had our first "date" in a year, and I invited him to breakfast. It was nothing special, just Denny's, and then he took me to the grocery store.
Here is something of significance though, I had asked him if he had mentioned the bankruptcy to my dad when he emailed him last week. I dont remember if I posted that, H emailed my F to "apologize for everything." So we are in the car, and I asked, and H said no he had just wished F a happy birthday and apologized. And my F said he understood, which I already knew. And then H said he wanted to keep my F as a friend because he really loved him. I told H my F loved him too.
And I know this is significant because how do you love your W's father and not love your W???
Comments???
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Oh, and the attorney is TRYING TO GET MY CAR BACK FOR ME!!!!!!!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Hi Lola... Your H calling your dad and loving him speaks volumes about your sitch and your H is general. I don't know if someone can love their FIL and not the W but as I told you before it's obvious your H loves you. He sounds a lot like mine because he got to a point where he just couldn't take it anymore. There is always hope in these cases because once they see things have changed they sometimes have second thoughts.
And Yay for the attorney!
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
And I know this is significant because how do you love your W's father and not love your W???
Well, my dad and my mom's dad stayed pretty close, even after the divorce. So, I guess it can happen. Though I don't know that I'd say they were buddies, they were not strangers. But, I think you are right, especially at this point, it is significant. And your H apologizing seems to me to be significant. That never struck me as a German strong point.
You know, Jeff, that is a good point. H prides himself on being right all the time, and apologies don't come easy. But on the other hand, I think I am just going to stop analyzing this to death because I will drive myself nuts.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
