(((John)))

I think you did an awesome job! I like the idea about not asking her to answer you right now....asking her to keep it in the back of her mind will take the pressure off her in terms of feeling like she has to know exactly what she wants for her future right now and it will help for her to know the door is still open. This will be something she thinks about often....trust me...if she's analytical...she will really ponder this.

Now...back to you! Spend this time doing whatever makes you feel good about yourself and whatever gets you to a place of happiness. Come and share your thoughts here with us...we are happy to help and might even ask you for advice at times. It's always nice to have a man's view of things \:\)

Keep your chin up my friend....everything will turn out as it should. Trixi's advice about preparing yourself for a possible move is great.


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