But, my point is, she's coming out of this as the golden girl. Success after success in the eyes of our co-workers. And this has been happening since the day she moved out. Meanwhile I've been a wreck. It's okay, I'm getting over all that now, but I hate feeling put in a position of comparison. I feel like people are saying, "I can see why she D'ed him." And maybe that's just my state right now, I don't know. And it'd probably be better if I went somewhere else. Eventually.
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Hmm, maybe it's b/c I'm a woman or weird or something, but when I hear this I think there's something wrong with her!!! I think maybe that shows her lack of empathy and emotionality that she can be such a shining person at work during such a difficult time. I was a complete and total emotional mess at the end of last year/beginning of this year and still have my occasional tough moments and I think most of us are that way. It's part of being a caring, committed person. Which you obviously are... Karen
