Well, we have had a bit of a set back this weekend. My H seemed depressed from friday-saturday. We stayed in friday night since he was so hung over from the night before. Then on Sat. we started a new bowling league with my parents and brother (whom are on other teams).
Bowling went well even though my H despises my Brother and it was only the second time my rents have seen my H in the last 5 months. Afterwards we went to his folks for lobster dinner with his brother and girlfriend and his grandparents.
Half way through dinner my MIL was asking me how my brothers were doing and I was updating them all. All of a sudden my H blurts out cruel and mean comments about my brother that he hates. It was so uncalled for and I was so embarressed that I couldnt even talk, and I started to cry. I quickly pulled myself back together and my h apologized. But I definetly felt like it ruined dinner.
When we got home he apologized again. But i just worry that he will never be able to get over this grudge with him. My brother has been told by my dad to leave my H alone and he is doing so. They both ignore each other.
My h also is scaring me because his future plans have changed drastically. We always wanted to buy a house in the town we live in on the river and towards the country. But now my H says since he has been living in town he loves it. And that is where he wants to live. He said it is because of the convienience. And I corrected him and said , "No, I think it is becasue all the bars are in walking distance". and he actually agreed. But those are still the facts. I am bummed. It looks like our future is so bleak.
