I am a little bit concerned about the moving back to CT thing; my worry being that *if* you do, you will end up resentful once the relationship is back on track. Try to have concrete ideas in mind on how you would deal with the cold; how you will be able to have a cheerful heart and not end up depressed because you were "forced" to move a place you swore you wouldn't go back to.
Good luck and keep us posted!
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing