He already knows you love him. Why are you making this HIS decision?
Yes PDT! Yes!
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The more you fight him & try to convince him what he's giving up, the more he's going to try & prove you wrong.
Yes!
I am mortified now, thinking back, and asking my husband if I was still 'in the running' with regards to his decision. Of course I got the "I don't know".
Don't ask anymore. Please don't. Please learn from our mistakes!
He doesn't want to hear you love him. He knows, but probably doesn't appreciate it anymore. He doesn't want to hear that you 'want him happy', that you want what's best for him. Just like you don't believe what HE says, he doesn't believe what you say to him.
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What will change the dynamic's is when you stop texting, e-mailing, talking about the R, do a complete turn around & stick to it. Try it and see how fast it changes
He might not saying anything, but he will notice. And the biggest plus side is that YOU will feel so much better. I promise.
