Well as hard as it is...I started packing his stuff. I only got three boxes packed.. but if I do 3-4 per day.. I will eventually have it done and accept it more every day.
Hubby came here with the kids yesterday after their soccer games..I figured he would. He never said he would stay away.I even let him know we had stuff to make a pot of chili.
He didnt make it..so I made it for dinner last night. Now he will have a huge pot of chili to eat and watch football.(I guess its my little reminder of what he will be giving up)
He is planning on staying here all day with them. Told D10 that he isnt taking them anywhere..he pays the mortgage.... Uhh...ok?
I guess the only good I see in him being stubborn..he is not at her house feeling all comfortable, spending time with her. If he comes home every weekend... he only gets to spend time with her every day after 8pm.... hmmm.. thats how our relationship had issues..no time together.
So... trying to listen to everyone... shut that door and not allow him to take advantage of me.
My goal is to have almost all of his belongings packed by the time he is home from his trip to Chicago... Oct 6
Someone gave me a great example yesterday....just like you have all been saying...
Do you like to fish? Yes OK...do you catch the fish when the hook it just hanging there.. or when you start to pull it away.
I guess I am that fish... And if he doesnt come back by me walking away(it is so hard to do this).... he probably was not going to anyway.