.....basically humiliating them without them even knowing about it.
Oh I know. I remember many times being around OW (she was my friend) with my H around. We would end up together at the pool (darnit, she saw me in a bathing suit! lol), parties, school, library, grocery store, everywhere together. My H allowed it to happen. I will be a long time recovering from that sting too.
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Do they get some sick thrill out of humilating their spouses without them knowing about it?
I don't know, but its really sad if they did/do.
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Do they exchange knowing glances at each other, pat each others butts while thier spouses are looking the other way?
Yes.
I suppose its like any other addiction, doing it while hiding it from your loved ones.
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How many others were caught in the friend-zone with the cheating couple and their betrayed spouses and didn't know and it was allowed to continue until D-Day
Many of us. Its common, sadly. Its horrible pain. My H and OW also made tons of plans together with all of our kids while OWH and I were working. They played happy family, even in church on Sunday mornings. I am shocked and beyond disappointed in my H for bringing our kids around that.
