Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I haven't posted to you in quite a long time. I am sorry OW is pregnant.
Find out if you can how far gone she is. Men with low sperm counts can oft get a woman pregnant but as you know yourself...the chances of miscarriage are very high. Any time from 7 - 13 weeks is dodgy even if she is pregnant as the sperm are also unlikely to be healthy and so the embryo doesn't develop properly - that's why IVF is so much better for guys with low sperm counts - they use the healthy ones. ( You got the best)
(((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
while I understand Saffie is just trying to make you feel better, I would recommend NOT trying to figure out how far she is. This information isn't going to make you feel anybetter, and it doesn't change anything either. Just focus on you and protecting K.
We will pray for God's will to happen and for the best thing to happen for the unborn child, because unfortunately this unborn child did not choose to be conceived in a life of sin and he/she will need much guidance.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Actually, what I was trying to say was don't get worked up about it when you don't know the circumstances it seems completely.
It might even be the case, looking at Blindsided's H's actions before, that he is even lying about this just to get the money / housing.
It may not be a done deal is what I am alluding to. Also what I put is actually factually correct about the odds with a guy with a low sperm count.
Obviously I do not wish harm on an innocent child - if one exists- however there is a pretty good chance that even if OW got a positive pregnanacy test result, what she is carrying is not a viable child but rather a bunch of cells that won't progress as they should do!
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Hey blinsided....hope you are doing ok. Tragic things keep happening to both of us at the same time...go read my thread about the weekend. Need help.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
