This is still "new" what your H is going thru. You really do not know if he will/will not come home.

Many of us here who are posting have had our spouse's gone two+ years!!!

You have either got to be patient and accept things as they unfold day by day, or if that is what you really want to do (D), then that is your choice.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19